Men are always right?

Conflicts escorted us life. We used to talk about conflicts of national, religious, class level. But the question of the relationship between men and women often leave without proper attention. It's so hard to build a harmonious relationship where the interests of men and women sometimes radically different! <
With the majority of men is useless to argue, because the representatives of the stronger sex sometimes overly self-confident in their actions. Their worldview has historically been formed so that man will never admit their wrong. And in this growing conflict wisdom of women is not to point out his mistakes, but only subtly and skillfully nudge to their awareness. After all, our mistakes, we can only admit to themselves.
Typically, marital conflicts generated by three factors:

- Different perceptions of masculinity / femininity;
- Unacceptable behavior in married life;
- And, indeed, the most mistake when choosing a life partner.

So if you believe that your man - it is the very person you want, then be sure that any conflict situation can be resolved. The main obstacle on the part of men can only serve as stubbornness, but from the women - excessive emotionality. And if you do not really aims to effectively break in the midst of conflict, the old hateful you set, try to consider the situation from a logical point of view. Do not forget that your grievance or dispute can only worsen the situation, but it does not fix the cause.

Try to ask yourself such questions:

- What I want to achieve in this situation?

- As far as my interests at variance with the interests of my partner? (After all, if you want to go on vacation in Bulgaria, and your man - to Turkey, it does not mean that your interests diverge. Because in the end you want the same - to go on holiday to the sea).

- How can I convince him to want to do this? Remember what I said D. Carnegie? "In the world there is only one way to persuade someone to do something. It is necessary to compel a man to want it. " Then do the same so that your man imbued with a passionate desire to go is in Bulgaria! Tell all the delights of this country, to take the initiative themselves and try to find a hotel, the beach and places that you would like to visit. Just interested in it!
The secret of a harmonious relationship between man and woman is that everyone should respect each other's interests. For women, it is essential to achieve it and all the effort was appreciated by a man. But for many men it is important result. And while a woman craves compliments on her efforts for men to talk about the obvious seems pointless.

Therefore, try to think in terms of your men. For example, if the evening did not quite take the initiative in a conversation with you, do not take it personally or indifference on his part. In the end, his day's quota of words three times smaller than yours! And if he watching TV totally does not notice your existence, it is only because the male brain differs from the female and male is not able to do two things at once.

But life can also be a situation where the conflicts and changes in the relationship simply can not avoid. And it's great! After all, man and woman are created as a unity of opposites, like people who think differently, but still together. A different way of thinking gives rise to misunderstandings and conflicts.

Imagine for a moment life without disagreements and conflicts! When all is quiet, smooth, "without a hitch. Life is incredibly quiet, ordinary and sometimes boring. In this case, a full understanding of each other will lead to loss of interest on the part of men, as every woman should be something special and unsolved. Woman should be a mystery!

Conflicts - that's life, the air, without which we can not exist. The air makes the fire power, life, fills it with paint. But the lack or excess can also lead to the attenuation of the fire. Be able to express their feelings openly and directly! Calmly tell him that you are extremely angry that he threw your favorite table lamp, inherited from great-grandmother. And perhaps this is the beginning of a constructive dialogue, as well as your joint campaign in the store. However, in this case, a lamp, he is unlikely to get away ...