In season resort novels again become particularly topical issue of sex with new partners, in particular - its medical aspect. What are the risks to your health are the new relationship, and how to prevent these dangers?
The first problem, which rightly should consider a woman for sex with a new partner - is an unwanted pregnancy or the risk of forced use of emergency contraception. <
Perhaps, in the first place, these dangers are relevant to adolescent girls or just too careless women. Basically after 20-25 years formed a very clear vision of its own responsibility for a possible pregnancy and understanding of all the dangers of emergency contraception (unfortunately, often derived from bitter experience).
Therefore, most women enjoy fairly stable, or other reliable contraceptives. The problem lies elsewhere - because now, pills and intrauterine devices advertised as the most reliable and safe methods of preventing pregnancy, many women do not, all bets on them and forget about condoms.
Generally most people are somehow too easy to relate to the risk of contracting as a result of unprotected sex. One of the main arguments - "if a person is adequate, then it will not deliberately infect other people, and will be treated." But even if we assume that this is so, plus you have 100% of the inadequacy of the scent, you still forget about the "meanness" infections.
A person can be peddler disease, even without knowing it - either because he himself pathogen has not yet passed the incubation period, either because of the peculiarities of the immunity of infection in this particular person occurs virtually asymptomatic. <
Forgetting about these nuances, many believe that it is sufficient to prevent pregnancy, and then the only danger is AIDS, which can be contracted except by a drug addict. We will not duplicate the arguments about the actual spread of AIDS in Ukraine (they are quite on the internet). "Normal" venereal disease - also not so harmless, as assumed. <
First, their treatment by itself - it's not a pleasant one. Suitable enough toxic chemicals, which disrupts the liver, kidneys, immune system and the whole organism. Many of these diseases can lead to very serious consequences, which in ten or twenty years might well emerge in the nervous and cardiovascular systems.
Finally, even if you bypass the complications, all the same - with respect to modern doctors to the patient and their duties, you get a 70-90% probability of chronic non-specific genital infection as a "necessary consequence of therapy."
Therefore, sex with a new partner it is necessary to use a condom. This rule remains in force until such time until you are sure (it is desirable - with the help of laboratory tests) in the absence of each other any diseases, sexually transmitted diseases.
Technology condom use is described in the instructions to him, which is very useful to periodically review again - just in case.
Unfortunately, there are illnesses that are not saved and a condom. This is particularly genital herpes, papillomavirus infection, syphilis, as well as some other more rare in our time of illness. During holiday novel only thing that will save you from these diseases - your luck. Although some things you can do all the same.
Try to choose an adequate and not too selfish partner. First sex is desirable to have the light - then you at least be able to review in advance of his skin, especially in the genital area. Any rash there - a serious signal of danger.
Even if you use a condom according to the instructions and well-considered a partner for genital herpes, the risk is still there. There is the myth of the complete harmlessness of oral sex in terms of transmission. Reason for this is a myth - indeed, if such contact risk of infection is many times lower. But the risk is still there! Therefore, if you do not like oral sex without a condom, it is better to abandon the pleasure during the holiday romance.
Monday, November 23, 2009
Men are always right?
Conflicts escorted us life. We used to talk about conflicts of national, religious, class level. But the question of the relationship between men and women often leave without proper attention. It's so hard to build a harmonious relationship where the interests of men and women sometimes radically different! <
With the majority of men is useless to argue, because the representatives of the stronger sex sometimes overly self-confident in their actions. Their worldview has historically been formed so that man will never admit their wrong. And in this growing conflict wisdom of women is not to point out his mistakes, but only subtly and skillfully nudge to their awareness. After all, our mistakes, we can only admit to themselves.
Typically, marital conflicts generated by three factors:
- Different perceptions of masculinity / femininity;
- Unacceptable behavior in married life;
- And, indeed, the most mistake when choosing a life partner.
So if you believe that your man - it is the very person you want, then be sure that any conflict situation can be resolved. The main obstacle on the part of men can only serve as stubbornness, but from the women - excessive emotionality. And if you do not really aims to effectively break in the midst of conflict, the old hateful you set, try to consider the situation from a logical point of view. Do not forget that your grievance or dispute can only worsen the situation, but it does not fix the cause.
Try to ask yourself such questions:
- What I want to achieve in this situation?
- As far as my interests at variance with the interests of my partner? (After all, if you want to go on vacation in Bulgaria, and your man - to Turkey, it does not mean that your interests diverge. Because in the end you want the same - to go on holiday to the sea).
- How can I convince him to want to do this? Remember what I said D. Carnegie? "In the world there is only one way to persuade someone to do something. It is necessary to compel a man to want it. " Then do the same so that your man imbued with a passionate desire to go is in Bulgaria! Tell all the delights of this country, to take the initiative themselves and try to find a hotel, the beach and places that you would like to visit. Just interested in it!
The secret of a harmonious relationship between man and woman is that everyone should respect each other's interests. For women, it is essential to achieve it and all the effort was appreciated by a man. But for many men it is important result. And while a woman craves compliments on her efforts for men to talk about the obvious seems pointless.
Therefore, try to think in terms of your men. For example, if the evening did not quite take the initiative in a conversation with you, do not take it personally or indifference on his part. In the end, his day's quota of words three times smaller than yours! And if he watching TV totally does not notice your existence, it is only because the male brain differs from the female and male is not able to do two things at once.
But life can also be a situation where the conflicts and changes in the relationship simply can not avoid. And it's great! After all, man and woman are created as a unity of opposites, like people who think differently, but still together. A different way of thinking gives rise to misunderstandings and conflicts.
Imagine for a moment life without disagreements and conflicts! When all is quiet, smooth, "without a hitch. Life is incredibly quiet, ordinary and sometimes boring. In this case, a full understanding of each other will lead to loss of interest on the part of men, as every woman should be something special and unsolved. Woman should be a mystery!
Conflicts - that's life, the air, without which we can not exist. The air makes the fire power, life, fills it with paint. But the lack or excess can also lead to the attenuation of the fire. Be able to express their feelings openly and directly! Calmly tell him that you are extremely angry that he threw your favorite table lamp, inherited from great-grandmother. And perhaps this is the beginning of a constructive dialogue, as well as your joint campaign in the store. However, in this case, a lamp, he is unlikely to get away ...
With the majority of men is useless to argue, because the representatives of the stronger sex sometimes overly self-confident in their actions. Their worldview has historically been formed so that man will never admit their wrong. And in this growing conflict wisdom of women is not to point out his mistakes, but only subtly and skillfully nudge to their awareness. After all, our mistakes, we can only admit to themselves.
Typically, marital conflicts generated by three factors:
- Different perceptions of masculinity / femininity;
- Unacceptable behavior in married life;
- And, indeed, the most mistake when choosing a life partner.
So if you believe that your man - it is the very person you want, then be sure that any conflict situation can be resolved. The main obstacle on the part of men can only serve as stubbornness, but from the women - excessive emotionality. And if you do not really aims to effectively break in the midst of conflict, the old hateful you set, try to consider the situation from a logical point of view. Do not forget that your grievance or dispute can only worsen the situation, but it does not fix the cause.
Try to ask yourself such questions:
- What I want to achieve in this situation?
- As far as my interests at variance with the interests of my partner? (After all, if you want to go on vacation in Bulgaria, and your man - to Turkey, it does not mean that your interests diverge. Because in the end you want the same - to go on holiday to the sea).
- How can I convince him to want to do this? Remember what I said D. Carnegie? "In the world there is only one way to persuade someone to do something. It is necessary to compel a man to want it. " Then do the same so that your man imbued with a passionate desire to go is in Bulgaria! Tell all the delights of this country, to take the initiative themselves and try to find a hotel, the beach and places that you would like to visit. Just interested in it!
The secret of a harmonious relationship between man and woman is that everyone should respect each other's interests. For women, it is essential to achieve it and all the effort was appreciated by a man. But for many men it is important result. And while a woman craves compliments on her efforts for men to talk about the obvious seems pointless.
Therefore, try to think in terms of your men. For example, if the evening did not quite take the initiative in a conversation with you, do not take it personally or indifference on his part. In the end, his day's quota of words three times smaller than yours! And if he watching TV totally does not notice your existence, it is only because the male brain differs from the female and male is not able to do two things at once.
But life can also be a situation where the conflicts and changes in the relationship simply can not avoid. And it's great! After all, man and woman are created as a unity of opposites, like people who think differently, but still together. A different way of thinking gives rise to misunderstandings and conflicts.
Imagine for a moment life without disagreements and conflicts! When all is quiet, smooth, "without a hitch. Life is incredibly quiet, ordinary and sometimes boring. In this case, a full understanding of each other will lead to loss of interest on the part of men, as every woman should be something special and unsolved. Woman should be a mystery!
Conflicts - that's life, the air, without which we can not exist. The air makes the fire power, life, fills it with paint. But the lack or excess can also lead to the attenuation of the fire. Be able to express their feelings openly and directly! Calmly tell him that you are extremely angry that he threw your favorite table lamp, inherited from great-grandmother. And perhaps this is the beginning of a constructive dialogue, as well as your joint campaign in the store. However, in this case, a lamp, he is unlikely to get away ...
Wonder about sex
- 25% of women believe that wealth makes a man more sexually attractive.
- Biochemical reactions that cause sex is no different from eating large quantities of chocolate.
- Latin American women on average have sex more often than representatives of other nations.
- Women who love to pass tests in women's magazines, according to statistics are five times more lovers than other women
- The girl lost her virginity to 18 years, on average, twice more sexually active than the one that said goodbye to her virginity, after 18 years.
- Women who love sex, less focused on achieving results than those who treat sex casually.
- Representatives of the black race to 50% more likely to reach orgasm every time they have sex.
- 20% of women who live with a man, have another lover.
- The more educated a woman - the higher the likelihood that it excites the idea of anonymous sex.
- Sex can burn 360 calories per hour.
- Biochemical reactions that cause sex is no different from eating large quantities of chocolate.
- Latin American women on average have sex more often than representatives of other nations.
- Women who love to pass tests in women's magazines, according to statistics are five times more lovers than other women
- The girl lost her virginity to 18 years, on average, twice more sexually active than the one that said goodbye to her virginity, after 18 years.
- Women who love sex, less focused on achieving results than those who treat sex casually.
- Representatives of the black race to 50% more likely to reach orgasm every time they have sex.
- 20% of women who live with a man, have another lover.
- The more educated a woman - the higher the likelihood that it excites the idea of anonymous sex.
- Sex can burn 360 calories per hour.
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